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Defeating Netflix
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Privacy setting: public - any Linkup member may view this goal
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Importance of this goal: 10
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Why is this goal important?
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Because I feel that my creativity, my empathy, and my social skills will vanish progressively if I’m going to spend my evenings in front of the TV.
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How is this goal related to the larger meaning and purpose of your life?
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I have been sidetracked in my life journey and I believe that by achieving this goal with creativity and enthusiasm, I’ll be able to express my talents in a more harmonious and loving way.
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What will achieving this goal will accomplish for you and for your life?
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Achieving this goal will create more time for me, time that I could spend wiser.
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What other positive developments might come about through achieving this goal?
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I could read more.
I could sleep more.
I could develop a hobby.
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Describe in detail how you believe you will feel once you have achieved this goal.
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I will feel content and happy.
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Describe in detail every way you believe your life will be better once you achieve this goal.
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I believe that once I achieved this goal I can do more of what I love to do and I’ll accomplish more of what’s important to me.
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In what ways will achieving this goal increase your self-respect?
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I believe I’ll like myself more.
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In what ways will your achieving this goal help other people?
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By dealing with a more serene me, other people would feel better, too.
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In what ways will achieving this goal help you in achieving other goals, or making other changes?
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I could have more time for myself and for my family.
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If you don't achieve this goal, how will you feel about yourself?
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Hopeless.
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If you don't achieve this goal, describe the very worst that could happen, by the end of your life.
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My daughter will avoid my calls; I’ll be obese and spend most of my time in front of the TV, without friends.
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How challenging is this goal? 10
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In what ways is this goal challenging?
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It will mean a different approach to my life; it will mean that I have to break this routine that is actually VERY entertaining and replace it with something else, something that is at least as entertaining as watching my favorite TV show.
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Describe exactly what will be involved in achieving this goal.
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Important note:
Netflix is my only source of television. I do not have cable TV and I gave up going to the movie theater.
1. I will review my Netflix queue and keep only 4 & 5 stars movies;
2. Over the next 3 months, I will reduce my Netflix plan from “4 DVDs out at-a-time” to “1 DVD out at-a-time”;
3. I will start reading fiction again until I will be able to read at least for 2 hours every evening;
4. I will join a book club.
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Exactly how will you know that you are making progress toward achieving this goal?
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1. By looking at my Netflix queue and account;
2. I will keep the book receipt from the library;
3. I will measure the time I am spending reading and write it down;
4. I will keep a diary of the book club meetings.
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How do you plan to pace yourself?
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I plan to feel comfortable with this new routine no later than January 31, 2010.
I feel that 3 months should be sufficient to (re)learn the habit of reading.
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What obstacles are you likely to encounter as you move toward this goal?
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Since the only disposable time that I have is in the evening, after my daughter goes to bed, sometimes I might feel too tired to read.
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For each obstacle, how do you plan to deal effectively with that obstacle?
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I plan to keep ready a non-fiction book instead of a fiction one for such moments when I feel too tired to read.
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If you notice you are slipping, what effective action will you take?
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I let everybody on the Linkup Goal System know about it and I'll expect to be cheered back on track.
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Is there a reward you plan to give yourself when you achieve this goal? If so, describe the reward and how you will feel about receiving it.
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I plan to reward myself with an electronic book reader the sort of Kindle or Nook.
I’ll certainly feel great that I have a new toy to play with!
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How long do you expect it to take, realistically, to achieve this goal? 3 months
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Time you intend to spend toward achiveing this goal: 2 hours per day
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